Daddy’s land. I can’t stay here without being transported back to when he lived on and loved this place.
He grew up in the Depression, so had a powerful need to make sure his family would never go hungry. He planted fruit trees of all kinds, pecan trees, two grape arbors, and always had a vegetable garden. He also enjoyed canning what his land produced. For a while he raised a few calves. He kept goats. I don’t remember his having chickens except for pets.
He always told us that if times got hard, any of us who were willing to work could come live here. That gave me a deep-seated sense of security.
But times change. Zoning laws are enforced now. Several of the fruit trees have gotten diseased and have been cut down. The feeling of having a safety net is gone. But the incredible sense of peace remains.
He was also a WWII Marine. 101st Marine Division. Guadalcanal. He truly loved God, country and freedom more than life. They don’t make men like him anymore.
I love my Mom. She was a teenage bride, and I was born a year after she and Dad were married. Mom always says that she and I grew up together. It is kind of strange being close enough in age to your mom to watch her grow up, too. 🙂
We went by Daddy’s grave today. Then shopping.
She has several beautiful Mother’s Day arrangements — gorgeous flowers.
But the screen door on her back porch needs repair. She had the screen very neatly duct taped into place. So instead of buying more flowers, I bought materials to fix her screen door. I’ll do that Monday, and that will be my Mother’s Day gift to her.
There is a pine tree in her front yard that has been killed by pine bark beetles. The base of the tree is mostly rotten sawdust. It’s a danger to the house.
I asked Ron today if he and Cecil would cut the tree down. No response. So I asked Mom if she would call someone to come cut it down for her. But tree surgeons are expensive and she is reluctant to spend that much.
I would call someone and pay them to cut it down if I could. But I have other obligations, and can’t really afford it either.
So the tree remains, a ticking time bomb. It will not last through the coming hurricane season. All I can do is pray that it falls away from the house instead of onto it.
Tomorrow Ann is cooking a Mother’s Day/birthday dinner for us. I’m really looking forward to that!
We were planning to camp somewhere in Central Florida after we leave Mom’s place. But Ron and I both want to head north instead of south. So we’ll find a nice COE campground in Georgia and stay there for a few days.
Hope fixed us a wonderful chocolate pudding today.
AND she taught Sheba to sit! She has an incredible way with animals. Sheba is so puppy squirmy and excitable when I try to teach her. But she calms down and listens to Hope. By the end of the day today, she was sitting on command for us, too.
She is such a sweet, adorable, good puppy. Except for the digging, of course. 🙂
I’ve posted similar photos and sentiments about this place before. One advantage to getting older is that you kind of enjoy retelling your stories, and it’s okay. 🙂
Jojo
/ May 13, 2012Its a wonderful place and a wonderful story. Happy Mothers Day to all you are celebrating with.
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tinycamper
/ May 13, 2012Thanks for reading it, JoJo. I wondered if anyone would! 🙂
Happy Mother’s Day to you, too!
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Marsha
/ May 13, 2012I always enjoy a gift more when it’s thoughtful, like the screen door. Long after the Mother’s Day flowers are gone, she’ll think of you as she looks through or goes through her screen door.
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tinycamper
/ May 13, 2012Marsha, your comment was a thoughtful gift to ME. I wondered if I was being too practical. 🙂
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Emily
/ May 13, 2012Oh my, wonderful – memories for me too.
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tinycamper
/ May 13, 2012I’m so glad it brought back good memories to you, too, Emily. 🙂
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Anne
/ May 30, 2012What a touch story and sweet family history. I think it is wonderful to have that kind of land and peace. I am sure she will appreciate the screen door more than having more flowers. That was a very thoughtful gesture to get something your mom needs.
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tinycamper
/ May 30, 2012It is a very special place to me, Anne. And Mom has mentioned a couple of times how much she appreciates the screen door fix!
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